Marriage Churches
In the video below, Jocelyn Andersen challenges the complementarian concept that Christian marriages are “small churches” led by a husband. She argues that this structure is based on a misunderstanding of scripture and, in some cases, harmful traditions.
Key Points:
The Definition of “Church:” Andersen asserts that the word “church” does not exist in the original Greek. Instead, she points to the term ek-klesia, which she defines as a non-hierarchical, living organism of believers connected by the Holy Spirit, rather than a man-made, hierarchical organization (0:12-2:05).
Critique of Hierarchy: She argues that Jesus established leaders (such as apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers) but did not create a ruling hierarchy among his followers. She maintains that nowhere in the Bible does marriage qualify someone for leadership within the ek-klesia (3:06-4:03).
Marriage and Gender Roles: Andersen describes the idea of the husband as the “head of the house” as a fabricated result of the Fall (Genesis 3:16), rather than a commandment. She emphasizes that while homes should be safe and loving places where the Word of God is taught by both parents, the concept of marriage as a microcosmic “church” structure is not biblically supported (4:03-4:57, 9:00-9:58).
Ruling hierarchy of Hebrews Chapter Thirteen: Andersen offers a re-parsing of Hebrews 13:7 and 13:17, arguing that these verses do not command Christians to “obey” leaders in a hierarchical sense, but rather to mimic their faith and yield to their godly examples (5:00-8:10).
Jocelyn Andersen challenges the status quo with an often non-traditional and out-of-the-box approach to biblical understanding. She writes and speaks on a variety of subjects including Bible Prophecy, God and Women, and Christian response to domestic violence. Her work has been featured in magazines, newspapers, radio, and television.
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